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Most salespeople are taught to play it safe, follow the script, and grind through cold calls hoping for a lucky break. Dale Dupree built his reputation and a global following by doing the exact opposite. From exploding toner bottles to lipstick-scrawled donut boxes, Dale’s approach is a masterclass in how to be unforgettable, break through the noise, and build real human relationships in a robotic sales world.
In this episode of Marketing Without Rules, Dale shares the wild stories and hard-won lessons behind his “Sales Rebellion” philosophy. You will learn why creativity is not about being weird for weird’s sake, how to turn rejection into your best marketing asset, and why the boldest strategy is being unmistakably human. Whether you are in sales, marketing, or any business that relies on relationships, this episode is packed with actionable ideas for anyone ready to ditch the cold call grind and start making real connections.
This show is sponsored by Blue Crocus Solutions, a web design and SEO agency focused on helping home service companies grow.
• Authenticity and boldness beat tactics and scripts every time
• The “crumpled letter” strategy turns rejection into curiosity and response
• Experiential, creative outreach gets prospects to call you back, even from the parking lot
• Creativity is about being human, not just being weird
• If you want different results, you have to show up differently and take real risks
The biggest reason most cold outreach fails is because it is boring, predictable, and robotic. Prospects are bombarded with hundreds of emails, calls, and LinkedIn messages every week. If your approach looks and sounds like everyone else’s, you are training people to ignore you. The “spray and pray” method, blasting out generic messages and hoping for a response, does not work in a world where attention is the most valuable currency.
To stand out, you need to break the pattern. That means showing up in a way that is unexpected, personal, and impossible to ignore. It is not about being outrageous for the sake of it, but about creating a moment that makes your prospect pause and think, “Who is this person, and why do I feel like I want to talk to them?”
Dale Dupree’s early sales career was a masterclass in this principle. Instead of cold calling like everyone else, he delivered exploding toner bottles, staged photos of himself stabbing copy machines in the woods, and dropped off empty donut boxes with lipstick-written notes. These tactics were not just gimmicks… they were proof that he was willing to go further, think differently, and treat prospects like real people, not just numbers on a list.
“If there’s not an inkling of risk in your blood and there’s not a desire to create discomfort for yourself, I can’t help you. This stuff takes legends, it takes commitment, it takes people that are willing to build something greater than the person before them.” – Dale Dupree
One of the most powerful ways to break through the noise is to lean into the reality that most sales messages end up in the trash. Instead of pretending your outreach is special, acknowledge the truth: your prospect is probably going to throw it away. That is the genius behind Dale’s “crumpled letter” strategy.
Here is how it works. Take a sales letter, crumple it up, and put it in an envelope with a note on the outside that says, “Crumpled letter inside.” The letter itself starts with something like, “You’re probably wondering why this is crumpled up. Well, I know how much you love getting sales stuff and that it just ends up in the garbage anyway. So I pre-crumpled this one to make it easier for you to throw away.”
This approach does three things at once. First, it creates curiosity, no one can resist opening a weird, crumpled envelope. Second, it shows self-awareness and humor, which immediately sets you apart from the sea of desperate, needy sales messages. Third, it makes you human. You are not pretending to be a sales robot, you are acknowledging the reality of the situation and inviting your prospect to laugh with you.
You can take this concept further with pre-burnt letters, coffee-stained notes, or even pre-shredded mail. The key is to create an experience that is both relevant and impossible to ignore. If you want to try it yourself, Dale offers templates and resources you can grab at the end of this article.
“The one thing you should be asking yourself here when hearing this is, well, what is my crumpled letter? And then really challenging that narrative and taking some risks, trying things a little bit differently and just thinking outside of the box to rehumanize your approach.” – Dale Dupree
Most salespeople are afraid to take risks because they are worried about looking silly or being rejected. But the truth is, the only way to get different results is to show up differently. Dale’s most memorable tactics, like the empty donut box, the foam “copier repair” brick, or the baseball bat for office stress relief, work because they create a moment that breaks through the monotony of the workday.
For example, after being stood up for a meeting twice, Dale bought a box of donuts, ate them himself, and left the empty box with a lipstick note for the prospect. Within minutes, the prospect called him back from the parking lot, laughing and asking him to come back inside. That meeting turned into a major sale and a turning point in Dale’s career.
The lesson is not about donuts or props. It is about creating a moment that is impossible to ignore. When you do something audacious and different, you force your prospect to stop, pay attention, and experience something new. That is what makes you unforgettable.
If you want to try this yourself, start by thinking about the daily frustrations your prospects face. What would make them laugh, pause, or feel seen? How can you create a moment that is both relevant and memorable? It could be as simple as a handwritten note, a funny comic, or a small gift that speaks to their pain points.
“Literally the dude called me on my cell phone and said, ‘Hey, are you still around?’ and I said, ‘Yeah.’ And he said, ‘Cool, come back inside.’ And I did.” – Dale Dupree
You do not need to be a natural-born creative or a heavy metal frontman to stand out in sales. Everyone has the capacity for creativity, but most people never tap into it because they are afraid of looking foolish or being rejected. The secret is to start with empathy and curiosity.
Begin by asking yourself, “What do I actually fix for my clients?” Go beyond the features and benefits of your product. Dig into the real frustrations, headaches, and daily pain points your prospects face. Map out their workflows, the moments where things break down, and the ways your solution makes life better.
Once you have a list of problems and pain points, brainstorm ways to bring those moments to life in a tangible, memorable way. Maybe it is a foam brick for “copier repair,” a baseball bat for office stress relief, or a crumpled letter that acknowledges the reality of sales outreach. The key is to create an experience that is both relevant and impossible to ignore.
If you are not sure where to start, think about a movie, hobby, or memory that made you feel nostalgic or broke you out of the monotony of life. That is where creativity is born. The more you practice, the easier it gets. And the more you are willing to take risks, the more unforgettable you become.
“If you just take people’s problems that you help with, and ultimately the familiar environments that they suffer through on a daily basis, and you create these moments of release and disconnect from the monotony for them, then your creativity is fuming at the mouth at that point.” – Dale Dupree
Being unforgettable is not about being weird for the sake of it. It is about being willing to take real risks, create discomfort for yourself, and commit to doing what others will not. If you are not willing to step outside your comfort zone, embrace discomfort, and risk rejection, you are better off sticking with the status quo.
Dale is clear that this approach is not for everyone. The only thing standing between you and breakthrough results is your willingness to say yes to discomfort and risk. If you want to be a hunter, not a gatherer, you have to be willing to do what others will not. That means saying yes to ideas that scare you, taking action even when you are not sure it will work, and being willing to look foolish in the pursuit of something greater.
The rewards are immense. Dale’s own life and career have been transformed by daring to be different, and he has seen the same results for clients across industries, from copier sales to real estate to home services. The only question is, are you willing to commit?
“If there’s not an inkling of risk in your blood and there’s not a desire to create discomfort for yourself, I can’t help you. This stuff takes legends, it takes commitment, it takes people that are willing to build something greater than the person before them.” – Dale Dupree
If you are tired of being ignored, stuck in the cold call grind, or feeling like just another name in the inbox, it is time to step up. Find your own version of the crumpled letter. Take a risk. Create a moment that your prospects will never forget. Whether it is a donut box, a foam brick, or a handwritten note, the only way to get different results is to show up differently.
Dale’s challenge is simple. If you adapt just to one idea that we throw out there, you will see significant changes in your life. The only question is, are you ready to be a hunter?
“Why would I keep doing it like everybody else? Why wouldn’t I commit to something more? If you feel deep down inside that even if you’re not made for it, you desire it, I promise you that if you adapt just to one idea that we throw out there, you’ll see significant changes in your life.” – Dale Dupree
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